I enjoy a fairly wide variety of music, with the notable exception being most 80s music. I remember hearing Nirvana and Pearl Jam in the early 90s for the first time, and how I welcomed that change in musical style.
Nearly two decades later Pearl Jam have released another album, Backspacer, which I have been listening to quite a lot. One song I can't seem to get enough of is 'Just Breathe'. The lyrics of this song anticipate the future, and yet are also firmly grounded in the present.
"Yes I understand that every life must end
As we sit alone, I know someday we must go
I'm a lucky man to count on both hands
the ones I love
Some folks just have one, others they got none..."
Much of our thought and speech seems to anticipate the future, or be stuck in the past. So many of us struggle to fully appreciate and remain in the 'now' moment. Life is full of distractions and it is all too easy to waste. We don't usually like to think about it, but one day our time on this amazing planet will end.
Remaining present with those we love is important, even if its not always easy. I readily admit that I have much to learn about being present with others.
I strongly identify with the sense of gratitude the above lyrics express concerning loved ones, for I know this is not everyone's experience. This song has certainly prompted me to really think about who I love, and who loves me. It has challenged me to consider how, and with whom, I want to spend my time. And it also begs the question, 'Who do I want to become?'
